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Anonymous asked: This is a really silly and stupid problem but Im having trouble befriending some guys lately.i've only known them for a few months i realize that some ppl might not consider that a lot of time but I dont think there should be a minimum time of knowing someone before you start being buddy buddy. but basically these guys will act like semi-interested in my life at school but when i try txting or calling they won't answer with much or won't answer at all. i don't know if they put up with me or what

Here For You replied:

No problem is ever stupid or crazy really lol. A few months is actually a pretty long time. I don’t think that there is a minimum of time of getting to know someone before you start getting buddy buddy. Once you’re friends with them, then you’re friends with them really lol. Well, if it’s nothing too serious like being in a relationship with them and just only being friends, just give it time. Judging from what you’re telling me, I’m pretty sure that these guys are the ‘lazy texters’. So they’ll just read your message and just forget to respond. Just start off slow with them. Don’t over do the texting because they might start to get annoyed. Get to know them more in person. When you guys have more to talk about, more likely they’ll start responding to your texts. Give it time. Hope this helps :)