Here For You

Anonymous asked: I'm in love with two guys, or at least I think I am. I fell for guy A first but my close friend decided she would like him as well. That sounds harsh and i know she cant just control her feelings, but it really is breaking me down cuz i feel like we have everything in common and we could have a connection. The second guy is someone I'm not sure if I tricked myself into liking in order to try and move past the first guy but I'm upset due to the fact that he is in a rough relationship, just fed up

Here For You replied:

i think that you need to talk to your friend about it! If she can’t control her feelings you really should ask her if she actually like him..and to be honest..i think you should try to see if you can get with the first guy because if you believe that you have this connection with im and you liked him first then you should at least be able to go for him..and if you don’t want to ruin ur friendship with your friend..you should talk to her about it first! because u should be happy with the person you like! and about the second guy…if he’s already in a relationship..there isn’t really much you can do unless he breaks up with his gf…but then you don’t really want to be considered as a rebound now do you? just wait it out..but seriously…talk to your friend..if you guys are close..she’ll understand!