I am currently with the man I love, and I know I want to be with for the rest of my life. We have been together for almost a year, and I know he loves me. But I let my self-doubt and paranoia come between us, and I can see it is increasingly hurting him. I have a lot of trouble believing people care about me even when they have given me no reason to doubt.
Insecurities and over thinking are what will cause a relationship to break. If his actions are backed up by his words, telling you ‘I love you’, then you have to trust him that he loves you enough to stick by you no matter what. But if your self doubts are hurting you, don’t bottle things up. Talk to him about it and I’m sure that he’ll be glad enough to help you. I would say that I’m in the same position as you. I try to not let my insecurities and self-doubt get the best of me when I’m with my boyfriend because I’m just causing unnecessary conflicts in my head. It’s tough to change that mind set of not having any doubts, but it’s not something that can be fixed over night as well. It takes baby steps and it’ll be worth it in the long run. I hope this helped
