Here For You

Anonymous asked: I'm the same anon who talked about being used and feeling worthless but I ran out of characters...I also wanted to mention that I really like a guy who doesn't like me back and I've liked him for 2 years. I feel very alone. I miss my grandma, my only grandma, and she's in the late stages of Alzheimer's. My mother is really stressed out so she can be vernally abusive sometimes, I have no clue where my dad is and I've never met him and all of this leads to me cutting. I don't know what to do :(

Here For You replied:

Now to add on to what I just said..I think you need to talk to your mom about how you feel about the words she says to you..because she will never know how hurt you are if you don’t say anything.. And you are not alone..u have me :) also..it’s hard to love someone who doesn’t feel the same way about you..but you will find thatright somebody and feel good :) lastly..cutting should never be an option for solving your problems.. It may stop the emotional pain for a moment but it will never stop the pain for good…you need to co front your problems and stop thinking so negatively..start seeing the glass half full and I know if I tell you to stop cutting it probably won’t do any good..but please..find it inside of you the will to stop..you WILL feel a whole lot better..it just takes some time and a positive attitude :)