December 2011
2 posts
Anonymous asked: Human lives, no human existence means absolutely nothing in the big picture of things, so all there is left to do is ignore that and seek whatever brings us happiness in our insignificant world of debts and death.
Anonymous asked: my best guy friend and i swore we'd keep in touch even if we went to different colleges. well he stayed back home and i went to a school on the other side of the country. we lost all contact within the first week of school, and by that i mean he just stopped keeping in touch. he never texted me back, or skyped, never replied to my texts and rejected my several proposals to talk. now that...
November 2011
9 posts
Anonymous asked: This is the girl who likes the silly guy. Well I'm not saying hes a complete jerk, weve just never talked much before and its kind of difficult to talk to someone you dont see much anyway, we only have one class together as we take completely different stuff. But its getting stronger, I cant get him off my mind. Its his friends that seem more mean and less likely to accept others. I just wish...
Anonymous asked: I like this silly boy at school...I've been trying to put it off forever because he's this really immature kinda guy, he seems nice enough when you isolate him from his crew - jockish/popular, and I'm a nobody by comparison. Twice he's kind of teased me...he saw me looking at him out of curiosity, no reason behind it and he yelled "ooooh do you want some of this?! you want...
Anonymous asked: I hate myself sometimes. No wait, all of the time. Sometimes it takes all I have not to slice open those pretty blue veins of mine. Nobody knows how much I've done to myself, how much I've self harmed, or made myself throw up, or wished for death. I tried dying once, but I couldn't even do that properly. I hate how much of a failure I am.
Anonymous asked: helps a lot actually. thank youuuu <3
Anonymous asked: I'm stuck between two boys. The first boy for sure likes me ... and another girl; the second boy, I'm not sure if he likes me. He knows that I like him though. What should I do?
Anonymous asked: All my friends are just hating me and I don't even fucking know why. They're all just consumed in their own fucking lives with each other and I always feel left out anyway so I don't even know why I care so much but it really fucking hurts. I never agree with anything I do and it just makes me hate myself even more and everything else in this shitty world.
Anonymous asked: Recently, I've been quite sick. To get better, I have to go through quite a painful process. I've been sick for a while, but it's only been recent that I've felt like every time things get hard, I'll break down and cry. I'm quite good at school, and I usually get great marks, but recently putting in the effort to do assignments has just felt like the biggest emotional...
Anonymous asked: I see dead people.
Anonymous asked: I wish I could tell you how I felt about you.
October 2011
39 posts
Anonymous asked: Everyone thinks I'm fine, but I'm really not. My dad's in the hospital and my parents are going through a bad divorce. Everyone sees me as the girl who's always happy. I'm really the girl who's always sad. No one knows the real me anymore, not even me.
Anonymous asked: This is a really silly and stupid problem but Im having trouble befriending some guys lately.i've only known them for a few months i realize that some ppl might not consider that a lot of time but I dont think there should be a minimum time of knowing someone before you start being buddy buddy. but basically these guys will act like semi-interested in my life at school but when i try txting...
Anonymous asked: In regards to your response, yes I do love them, a lot; but it's like a tug-o-war between overindulgence of love, and choking on negativity; to a point where my being feels like it's at a risk of being shattered. You get what I mean? I don't want to hurt them, but at the same time I'm hurting... for no reason at all. Strategically thinking, letting them go would be like 2012,...
Anonymous asked: I feel like the luckiest human alive, but oftentimes I question if I rushed in with love, the thoughts of prioritizing my future of education, and having time to myself. I recently got out of my depression, but my mind longs for the torture it experienced. Call me crazy, but I liked being alone in the dark; merely observing from my own ominous world. This is but a brief summary of what my...
Anonymous asked: Okay so I like this guy. I dont want to seem shallow or anything but hes not that cute/popular/hot/whatever. But whenever I see him in the hallways I always smile but when were in class, like face to face, i just think hes a loser. (i know i am too, but you know what i mean?) Ahhh its complicated and i hope you get me, & thoughts?
Anonymous asked: I cant stand school. Everyday i wake and think of at least 10 ways i wont have to go. The teachers suck, i try my best to learn (i really do) but really (some) of the teachers dont even know what they are teaching. I get good grades, i dont do drugs or drink (and i wont), i just feel like when i wake up in the morning i have nothing to look forward to. What do i do?
Anonymous asked: I feel so lonely all the time. I have very little friends,and my best friend and I aren't good friends anymore since she got tired of me and she's too busy with her boyfriend. I also really like this guy that found out I liked him and he blew me off. And I cry myself to sleep almost everynight and it's only a matter of time before I start cutting again. And I have social anxiety...
This is going to sound odd, but one of my best friends… well, it’s like losing feelings for someone in a relationship. I love her, but we’re so different, and in a way that I can’t really look past, I can’t talk to her anymore because of the way she feels about things compared to how I feel about things. It’s nobody’s fault here, and I’m really all...
Anonymous asked: The guy I like held my hand today for like 6 seconds omg eep aaaah. We were playing around, and he loves it when I blush (so basically he likes to see me suffer haha) so he kept complimenting me, and then he asked as a joke if we wanted to hold hands and held out his hand and we did and it was cute and I'm giddy and grammar doesn't matter right now
Anonymous asked: There is a guy who I met not that long ago. We both have very similar likes/beliefs/values; I have never met a sweet guy my age with so much passion for the Lord. Problem is that he lives almost 10 hours away. We've been talking non-stop, we get along really well, & I really seem to like him. I've never been in a relationship before, and I am not sure how well I could handle the...
Anonymous asked: Theres this guy that i like and im never sure if he likes me or not. Hes really shy and his friends tell me that he likes me but wont do anything about it. hes told me b4 and asked me out. In my experience of being friends with him, he hasnt done much about liking any girl. Anyways, we went out once and had a great time and were very comfortable around eachother. Idk how to get it like that more...
Anonymous asked: I'm bullied by my family. I've been bullied all my life, mostly by my peers, but my family does it too. We have a thing on facebook for the upcoming family reunion and I made a post about how I won't be joining because I don't want to be reduced to tears. My mom threw a fit because "it's in the past", but this has happened every reunion since I was 8 (I'm...
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My friend and I kind of liked each other without admitting it at first. We were best friends.. And despite the whole “hooking up with your best friend never works out” thing, we did it anyways. Well, eventually we broke it off cause of the distance between us, but now we don’t even talk. At all. I swear he’s avoiding me, but I still miss him. Like four months later =|
Now I...
Anonymous asked: Hi I asked for advice on a situation involving a possible long distance relationship yesterday...I was wondering if you ever received it! :)
Anonymous asked: Hi. c: I just sent you an ask, but I ran out of room and didn't get a chance to say thank you. This blog is great and it's really sweet of you. <3
uh hi I was hoping maybe you could help me. I don’t know if you personally deal with this or anything but I used to self harm, I cut on and off for the past few years and sometimes I miss it. I wish I could do it again but I know everyone will find out if I do it and the sad thing is I don’t actually like pain. I just want to see my blood. I’m sorry if that’s scary
This is...
Anonymous asked: i'm sick of crying myself to sleep every single night.. it's been happening for over a year, and i can't seem to do anything to stop it. i'm just.. tired.
Anonymous asked: Ok so my dad is very close minded and he doesn't want me to date anyone outside of my own race, and my mom goes along with him. I'm white and my boyfriend is black, he's an amazing guy, has all the qualities they would want in a man for me, but he's black. I'm scared to talk to them in fear it will be a big blow out...
Anonymous asked: I'm in love with two guys, or at least I think I am. I fell for guy A first but my close friend decided she would like him as well. That sounds harsh and i know she cant just control her feelings, but it really is breaking me down cuz i feel like we have everything in common and we could have a connection. The second guy is someone I'm not sure if I tricked myself into liking in order to...
Anonymous asked: Hi, I realize you probably got a bunch of stuff but I just wanted to make sure u got mine about liking 2 guys cuz i sent it right before my comp crashed and sometimes my asks dont go thru
I am currently with the man I love, and I know I want to be with for the rest of my life. We have been together for almost a year, and I know he loves me. But I let my self-doubt and paranoia come between us, and I can see it is increasingly hurting him. I have a lot of trouble believing people care about me even when they have given me no reason to doubt.
Insecurities and over thinking are what...
There’s this guy I like so much. I just adore everything he does. I’ve liked him for a long time now, but he thinks of us only as friends. He’s a starter on the Varsity football team & I’m the quiet, “emo” nerd girl who listens to really heavy thrash music. A few of the girls I hang out with think I’m crazy for liking him & that he’s a player...
I’ve had many issues in the past few years with my self identity. Not in who I am and where I’m going in life, but in who I like and who I’m ‘allowed’ to like. Even though three people who are very important to me, know and accept that I am bisexual.. I realize that I feel so trapped, as if I cannot act on my own nature. I know that my family wouldn’t accept me...
I am completely in love with my best friend. I can talk to him about anything and he always makes me feel better when I have a bad day. And sometimes I think he feels the same way, but then other days I’m not so sure, and then there is the problem that we now live 6 hours apart. There are times when I want to tell him but I don’t want to risk our friendship, it’s too important to...
ideactivatedthis-deactivated201 asked: I wish guys were so much easier to read. lol. but it's true. :p
Anonymous asked: I want to kill myself, just to make the shit all stop. I'm not going too, and I know it's never the answer, it's just something I think about sometimes, and I wanted to tell someone.
I really like a girl, who sorta hates me a lot. What can i do ?
Now I think the first thing you have to do..if you choose not to move on from her…is to get her to like you! X) because if she hates you then I don’t think that can get you anywhere…you should probably talk to her about why she hates you so much so that you can at least become friends with her :) from then on you can try to start...
New Member...kinda needed a little help with...
his tumblr: bottledupinsideofme.tumblr.com
Anonymous asked: Oops, I wasn't able to read about your new blog and accidentally sent it there. Could you please answer it though? It would mean a lot :)
i’m tired of life. im tire of swimming four hours a day and then going to marching band. im tired of being fat. im tired of being ugly. im tired of not having good grades. im tired of everyone expecting shit from me.
Everyone gets tired now a days…stress gets to you..you tend to overthink things and you start to hate your life! Now there is an easy solution…take on day off…maybe even...
Anonymous asked: Just a complaint :/ ... I'm mad: at myself. Not for the usual haywire that occurs through my brain, but at the lack of progress I see in reaching goals. More specifically getting that "dream body." You know? That's really hot bod you see on magazines? *drools* Yah. People say my body is... more or less... "nice," or "hot" the way it is, but I wish I was...
Anonymous asked: I'm the same anon who talked about being used and feeling worthless but I ran out of characters...I also wanted to mention that I really like a guy who doesn't like me back and I've liked him for 2 years. I feel very alone. I miss my grandma, my only grandma, and she's in the late stages of Alzheimer's. My mother is really stressed out so she can be vernally abusive...
Anonymous asked: I know you at school. I wish I could feel like we'd progress to being real friends but I feel like I can't fit in with you due to the fact that you most likely see me as an alarm clock.
Going to bed... Will resume advice tmmr :)
Hope I helped a good bunch of you today :)
Anonymous asked: Hey! I think it's really cool you made another blog where people can say whatever they want. I guess it makes us feel better, especially knowing that you're there to listen. I have a feeling you'll be making a lot of new tumblr friends on here haha.
Anonymous asked: I've developed a sort of crush on this guy I'm in a few school activities with, and I have no idea whether or not he's also interested. He's been nice, conversational and whatnot; I've just been accidentally aloof on a couple occasions. I'm freakishly glad that this is the worst thing happening in my life right now, but I'd also like to work out a possible...
Anonymous asked: Thank you for this blog, I guess I'll vent a little bit. And to make things short, in a nutshell, I hate who I am. I feel so ugly and worthless. I feel like my mother will never be proud of me and I feel like I will never have a guy be in love with me. My only experiences with boys is ones where I got used and I opened myself to them only for them to turn around and hurt me.Everyone is...
parabocake asked: So. How do you tell someone to fuck off without saying, "Fuck off."? =/
poisonisley asked: Well, I saw that you started this blog, so I thought I'd vent a few frustrations. Anyway, there's this guy. We dated for a few weeks, but then he got cold feet and said he wasn't ready to be in a relationship again. He kind of disappeared for a few days, resurfaced to have dinner with our group of friends, and then disappeared again. Yesterday, he turned up again, and he's been...
