Anonymous asked: Human lives, no human existence means absolutely nothing in the big picture of things, so all there is left to do is ignore that and seek whatever brings us happiness in our insignificant world of debts and death.
Here For You replied: i really like this!
Anonymous asked: my best guy friend and i swore we'd keep in touch even if we went to different colleges. well he stayed back home and i went to a school on the other side of the country. we lost all contact within the first week of school, and by that i mean he just stopped keeping in touch. he never texted me back, or skyped, never replied to my texts and rejected my several proposals to talk. now that winter break is coming i have to go back and it's going to be awk when we meet up. what do i do?
Here For You replied: Best advice i ever go from someone…”It’s only awkward if you make it awkward” …i’d start off asking him how school is so far and probably bring up old memories just so that you guys can get back to way it was before! :) i hope everything works out!
Anonymous asked: This is the girl who likes the silly guy. Well I'm not saying hes a complete jerk, weve just never talked much before and its kind of difficult to talk to someone you dont see much anyway, we only have one class together as we take completely different stuff. But its getting stronger, I cant get him off my mind. Its his friends that seem more mean and less likely to accept others. I just wish circumstances were different
Here For You replied: ahh….well i think you should try to talk to him more! and try to talk to some of his friends a bit! It does kinda suck with all these different social groups in schools…but you have to try..it just might be a crush or something more! :)
Anonymous asked: I like this silly boy at school...I've been trying to put it off forever because he's this really immature kinda guy, he seems nice enough when you isolate him from his crew - jockish/popular, and I'm a nobody by comparison. Twice he's kind of teased me...he saw me looking at him out of curiosity, no reason behind it and he yelled "ooooh do you want some of this?! you want some of this?!" and doing extremely suggestive movements as he yells that at me infront of his friends. I don't know man
Here For You replied: Ask yourself if being with him is really worth it in the end. If the guy is acting like a total jerk when he’s with his friends, and act like a nice guy when he’s isolated from his friends, then how would know which is the real him. You want someone that will respect you with and without his friends. There will be other guys, maybe this one just isn’t the right one for you. I really hoped this helped (:
Anonymous asked: I hate myself sometimes. No wait, all of the time. Sometimes it takes all I have not to slice open those pretty blue veins of mine. Nobody knows how much I've done to myself, how much I've self harmed, or made myself throw up, or wished for death. I tried dying once, but I couldn't even do that properly. I hate how much of a failure I am.
Here For You replied: Okay…whoever you are…you are amazing!! <3 you may not see it..but i do…alright..you’re probably thinking “she’s talking bullshit” but i mean it! Everyone is special and everyone should not hate themselves! You really need to find someone to talk to…someone you can pour out all your emotions because if you keep it all in…you’re gonna be hurting even more! I hope you believe me when i say that you are a beautiful person! <3
Anonymous asked: helps a lot actually. thank youuuu <3
Here For You replied: np <3
Anonymous asked: I'm stuck between two boys. The first boy for sure likes me ... and another girl; the second boy, I'm not sure if he likes me. He knows that I like him though. What should I do?
Here For You replied: Hmm… you really don’t want to go for the first because if he likes you AND another girl..forget about it…you want someone who likes YOU and ONLY YOU! The second guy may be shy…but if he knows you like him and hasn’t said anything, it’s either he’s reallly shy or he probably doesn’t feel the same :( i know that sucks but that’s life…i think you should confront the second guy and find out whats going on because if you don’t say anything you’ll be left wondering and that will hurt a lot…hope this helped :)
Anonymous asked: All my friends are just hating me and I don't even fucking know why. They're all just consumed in their own fucking lives with each other and I always feel left out anyway so I don't even know why I care so much but it really fucking hurts. I never agree with anything I do and it just makes me hate myself even more and everything else in this shitty world.
Here For You replied: Well…there are two things you can do..
1) Get new friends..because if they really are your friends…they wouldn’t just shut you out like that
and 2) Don’t be to hard on yourself…because if you’re all stressed out you’re gonna hate yourself even more..and we wouldn’t want that now do we?
oh and lets add a 3) Things will get better! :) Just wait it out!
btw..i missed this post so i’m sorry that this is late :(
Anonymous asked: Recently, I've been quite sick. To get better, I have to go through quite a painful process. I've been sick for a while, but it's only been recent that I've felt like every time things get hard, I'll break down and cry. I'm quite good at school, and I usually get great marks, but recently putting in the effort to do assignments has just felt like the biggest emotional and physical strain. I feel like no one knows how this is really affecting me, with the exception of my parents.
Here For You replied: I feel you..i too go through the stress of having to keep up this image i’ve set for myself. What i usually do is take some time off for myself..you know..a little break..it really does wonders! and if that doesn’t help..talk to someone! :) you’ll definitely will feel better after that!
Anonymous asked: I see dead people.
Here For You replied: You should go get that checked out.
